The guide has been developed as gender neutral and sometimes may use s/he to express he or she, him/her, him/herself, and they/their to indicate your ex-partner. This guide is going to provide ideas—some unorthodox—based on personal experiences and insights gained by living and loving in the 21st century. If you feel stuck and unable to move on even after you have informed yourself through other text or after counseling; this book will provide guidelines and concepts that will help you cope with a bad break-up and motivate you to finally start over. Some new age concepts will be approached in this book. Concepts rooted in astrology, the occult, and mythology will also be explored in a search to discover some rationale and reasoning for why people are susceptible to affairs. This book will challenge you to keep an open mind by being receptive to unusual concepts and methods to coping with betrayal. You are in pain, real pain like you have never experienced before. Books can tell you what in theory you can do to help cope with this pain, but nothing accept time is going to take the pain away. Time, personal growth, self-reflection, and pounds of patience are the only things that will see you through this. You are going to be stronger after this. If you are an artist, you will have an extra layer of depth to your work. You will earn your stripes. Infidelity and the betrayal that goes with it is the great equalizer. It happens to the rich, the poor, the ugly, the beautiful, the young, the old, men, women, everyone. And we each must find a way to get past it and rebuild ourselves. Millions before you have done it, and now it is your turn.