You recently found out your partner was cheating. Maybe it has been awhile, but you are having a difficult time getting over the pain of the betrayal. The unimpressive fact is that people have been walking out on their families since time and memorial. People have been cheating on their husbands and wives for the same span of time. You may have suspected, or maybe you thought it could never happen to you. But here you are, dealing with the pain and aftermath of finding out the truth about the person you loved and may still love. Your foundation has been destabilized. You are painfully aware that your life contained the properties of a house built on sand, and now all has collapsed into chaos.